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Towering above the city from my penthouse, the heavy cloak of a snowy Canadian evening resting on my shoulders, I muse about my expansive career and the beautiful mosaic that my life as a dominatrix has become—a testament to my age, a hearty 52 years of wisdom and kink. Allowing my memory to sway in its cosmic dance, I draw myself into a world of thoughts, from my first intimate rendezvous to the elaborate scenes constructed for my current sphere of individuals; those seeking meaning, liberation, and gratification – all above the age of consent, an unwavering tenet.
What started as a burgeoning interest in the late eighties rapidly catapulted into being a powerful domme in the renowned scenes of Toronto. As an eager young artist, I was only 18+ years old then, exploring the contrasting realms of tenderness and dominance, seeking art in human connection. The scent of latex and leather, the gasps of tantalization, the hush of reverence, all are the colour palettes to my craft—of love, pleasure, and awakening.
Yet, it’s the journey of my own self-discovery that fascinates me the most. The evolution from a dominatrix who held the reins of control, to a spiritual guide who invokes the illuminating principles of tantra. Tantra, the path to unravelling one's deepest truths and embracing love in its complete essence, has vividly reshaped my interpretation of my profession. It is a discipline that allows for freedom, the freedom to feel, to desire, to break the shackles of societal norms, and to transcend the boundary between the physical and spiritual worlds. It turns the confines of encumbrance into a wide open playground, an invitation to explore the depths of one’s soul and desires with utmost honesty.
I weave the elements of tantra into our sessions, focusing not solely on the physical but encouraging a journey into the mindscape—a surrender to the experience, connecting to the universal energy that binds us all. The exchange of power is a dance of trust—the ones who submit are the brave hearts willing to lose themselves, and in doing so, discover their true selves. And as I guide them through this process, I too feel a sense of liberation, a sense of growth. Every gasp, moan, whisper is a testament to courage, trust, and freedom.
As the night grows darker, the snow outside starts to settle, mirroring my calming thoughts. I relish in the quietude, the solitude. It's in these moments that I truly understand how far I've come, from a young, curious artist exploring BDSM to a revered tantra-inspired mistress. The sense of contentment that washes over me is almost overwhelming, an affirmation of my path – a path carved through years of experience, exploration, and evolution. It's an enriched narrative of a Canadian dominatrix - a non-binary individual who took the conventional notions of pleasure, power and intimacy, and painted them with new colours of tantra, freedom, and self-discovery.